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women’s self defense masterpost
videos:
- rape escape
- choking escape
- break-away
- gun to the face
- disable an attacker
- butt grab defense
- abduction defense
- elbow take-down
- pinned-to-wall defense
staying safe:
- use the buddy system
- don’t get distracted by cute people
- be a bitch if you need to
- don’t say yes to meeting up/giving out info
- stay as sober as you can
- watch the bartender make your drink
- if you put your drink down, buy another one
- cover the top of your drink with your hand
- make sure you have speed dial
- use an umbrella/pepper spray/purse
- if an attacker wants your purse, throw it one way and run in the opposite direction
- fight back (sensitive areas: groin, neck, stomach, fingers)
- if possible, jam your keys in their eyes
if you are raped:
- get help (speed dial, police, friend, 911)
- do not immediately clean yourself
- go to a hospital to check for semen/STD/STI
when is it rape?:
- victim is drunk
- victim is sleeping/unconscious
- victim is forced against their will
- victim is forced to perform any type of sex (oral, anal, vaginal)
- victim is underage
two way mirrors:
- no space, leave the place
- if you are in a highly lit room, chances of you being seen are higher
- two-way mirrors are set into the wall, not on top of it
- use the flashlight on your phone
being followed/stalked:
- file a restraining order/police report
- reject the stalker/follower
- ignore any suggested actions from them
- keep a record of their actions
- change contact information
- do not reason with them
- try to find another path as soon as you can
- yell for help (calls for help include just “help!”, “fire!”, “go away!”, anything to get attention)
- call someone to come get you if possible
- take your phone/keys/ID/etc. out of your purse, then drop your purse, they might want that and not you
resources:
please feel free to add on! stay safe, ladies!
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the US is unreal like girls cant wear shorts to school, you can literally lose your job for being gay, and unarmed black children are brutally murdered on the regular but old white ppl r still like “what a beautiful country. i can freely carry a gun for no reason and some of our mountains look like presidents. god bless”
THIS IS LITERALLY IT. THIS IS WHAT ITS LIKE
A bitch can be a super model and a nigga will still cheat . A bitch can live In a big ass mansion, driving a foreign car 🚗 and a nigga would still cheat. A bitch can have a perfect figure and a nigga would still cheat. Either way niggas will still cheat on you with a bitch that looks like a chicken nugget. Niggas ain’t shit.
I am slowly learning that some people are not good for me, no matter how much I love them. I deserve someone who is gentle and kind because my soul is getting tired. Realizing that I deserve something good is one of the first steps.
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How to Create a Positive Impression
1. Smile: People who smile are viewed as being warmer and friendlier individuals.
2. Be easy to impress, or to make laugh and smile: Others also worry about how people see them. If they think that they’re succeeding, then they’ll like you even more.
3. Show interest and liking through your use of body language: Face the person, look them in the eye when you’re talking, and show you are friendly through your open body stance (uncrossed arms and legs etc.)
4. Remember the power of transfer traits: Basically, that means that if you say nice things about other people, they assume you’ll say nice things about them, too … Or if you criticise others, then you’ll criticise them, too.
5. Poke fun at yourself: It makes you seem more human and approachable.
6. Remember the power of emotional contagion: That means that others tend to pick up the emotions we project. So, if you seem laid back, warm, happy and relaxed then those you are with will start to feel the same way, too.
7. Remember the name and few basic facts about the person you are talking to: Such as their job, college major, favourite hobby, favourite food, places they have been to or awards they have received.
i hope u find someone that mindlessly plays with your hands and lightly strokes your legs and massages your back and plays with your hair and i hope that u feel like you’re home when u look at them
“I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and I believe in miracles”
— Audrey Hepburn (via coral)